I’m a dating coach, plain and simple. Welcome to the new dating world. I do have advice for the masses. True, dating sites have created opportunities and barriers for men, women and transgender respectively. However, when posting profile pictures on the primary dating sites, it is imperative that both men and women stop showing excessive amounts of breasts and boners. That means stop posting and sharing racy pics. Nobody cares and nobody wants to see the ‘goods’ unless it’s upfront and personal…not for the masses to see. Today’s world is different, men are becoming more attracted to brains, intelligence and independence and women want a man who is confident and comfortable in his own skin. It’s time to stop using your physical appearance as a means of attracting attention. Your words and abilities to display intelligence is far more useful than revealing racy pics.